The begining

I worked two jobs, and my husband worked one. We were quiet content, we saw all kids and grandbabies on weekends, life was easy , house always clean, come and go as we pleased. then it started his youngest one, their dad, started drugs, kept getting in trouble then amber was born now when she was six months old I filed custody papers, we got tired of seeing her in her car seat all the time amd them stoned all time, so we kept check on her and then came number 2 nathan still same old dad had been in jail, mom found yet another boyfriend but this time dad wasn.t sure if this baby was his or not so dad had test done, sure enough he is dads to. the next year along comes nina number three. at this time dad had been in and out of jail. mom pulled weekends for shoplifting and other things. and things getting worse all the time. thank God for granny pam she took babies to drs appts, she came by every day and fed the babies, and put out so much money on mom paying bills buying cars, needless to say granny pam got used alot, by this time we knew dad was going away for a long time 4 years so we knew we had to do something time to talk it over