Stress

Thats my favorate word, there is those who cause it, and those who help you deal with it, needless to say more people cause it than help deal with it.It seems Amber and Nathan are the ones who are having issues with dad being in jail and mom and her new family, Amber is so moody, crying, acting out and Nathan is just angry.and at our house the stress is high, I am the one holding the bag, sometimes I feel really bad, I need to stop openning my mouth and just listen to them, I have decided to go to court house and petition the court for child support, theses children deserve something to . Theres mom with the new baby who gets new clothes, a 600 dollar nursery and she doesn't even bring theses three a sucker, so sad they see this, Nina told farmer granny and her dad that mommy loves this new baby more than us. we tried to explain that little babys need help all the time but I don;t think she bought it. The good thing with Nina is we have had her since she was eight months old so we have always loved and played with her she more grounded it because of it, the other to missed out on being loved by their mom and dad at that age and we didnt get them til they where three and four. the therapist says they will always crave that attention,they seem so imature for their ages although it is not their fault, hopefully they will catch up, so we are doing to double up therapy, to help deal with mom and her new family and dad doing time, my motto is if your going to do have kids, cheating,lying and drugs don't go with children, parents make up your mind have kids and love them or be a druging and don't have kids